Introduction
Today, we’re going to continue our character study on Esther.
Esther Story Summary
- The Jewish people in exile
- Some returned, but some stayed in Persia
- Minorities in a strange land
- Esther’s people faced a backlash
- God raised up Esther to be a deliverer
Review From Last Week
Last week, we looked closely at the opening of Esther, which describes a party thrown by King Ahasuerus, the king of Persia, that lasts 6 months.
The king’s endgame is to display his military might and show that he has the wealth to finance more wars to conquer more territories and expand his kingdom.
The Queen’s World
- Required that a woman continually prove her worth
- Her chief role was to complement the king’s swag with her charm, style, beauty, and grace.
- Her royal status was perpetually in the balance.
The Royal Hustle
The king and queen were still in this hustle for money, power, beauty, attention, and status.
- The king knew that he could be displaced at any time by another country who amasses more power.
- The queen knew that she could be displaced at any time by another woman who fancies the king’s interests more.
Hustling As a Modern Way of Life
When “Best” Becomes an Antidote to Unfair
- Here’s how some people think: The way you respond to a world that is unfair is to be the best so that no one can deny you.
- Being the best—at whatever it is—won’t always be enough.
Queen Vashti’s Unexpected Challenge
- Esther 1:10–12 (ESV):10 On the seventh day, when the heart of the king was merry with wine, he commanded Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha and Abagtha, Zethar and Carkas, the seven eunuchs who served in the presence of King Ahasuerus, 11 to bring Queen Vashti before the king with her royal crown, in order to show the peoples and the princes her beauty, for she was lovely to look at. 12 But Queen Vashti refused to come at the king’s command delivered by the eunuchs. At this, the king became enraged, and his anger burned within him.
- “Harems… were usually sequestered [to the point where if the women traveled in public, they had to ride] in closed carriages since the law forbade anyone from gazing on a woman’s face in royal charge.” –Donna Snow, Chosen: A Study of Esther, p. 43
- “Some scholars have speculated if what is reported was true, then Vashti’s impertinence would stem from her objection to being humiliated by appearing in such a public place to be gazed on by the multitudes. And as queen, such an appearance was far beneath her royal station. What woman of substance longs to merely be an ornamental object?” (Snow 43)–Donna Snow, Chosen: A Study of Esther, p. 43
Queen Vashti’s Unforeseen Consequences
- Esther 1:19 (ESV):19 If it please the king, let a royal order go out from him, and let it be written among the laws of the Persians and the Medes so that it may not be repealed, that Vashti is never again to come before King Ahasuerus. And let the king give her royal position to another who is better than she.
Queen Vashti’s Motives
- What was Vashti thinking?
The King Was Easily Influenced by Those Around Him
- Esther 1:12 (ESV): 12 But Queen Vashti refused to come at the king’s command delivered by the eunuchs. At this, the king became enraged, and his anger burned within him.
- Esther 1:13 (ESV): 13 Then the king said to the wise men who knew the times (for this was the king’s procedure toward all who were versed in law and judgment,
- Esther 1:14 (ESV): 14 the men next to him being Carshena, Shethar, Admatha, Tarshish, Meres, Marsena, and Memucan, the seven princes of Persia and Media, who saw the king’s face, and sat first in the kingdom):
- Esther 1:15 (ESV):15 “According to the law, what is to be done to Queen Vashti, because she has not performed the command of King Ahasuerus delivered by the eunuchs?”
Queen Vashti Overplayed Her Hand
When the Best is Not Enough
Comparing Vashti and Esther
The Power of Covenant
- Esther 1:13 (ESV):13 Then the king said to the wise men who knew the times (for this was the king’s procedure toward all who were versed in law and judgment,
- Esther 1:15 (ESV):15 “According to the law, what is to be done to Queen Vashti, because she has not performed the command of King Ahasuerus delivered by the eunuchs?”
- James 2:10 (ESV):10 For whoever keeps the whole law but fails in one point has become guilty of all of it.
- Esther 2:17 (ESV):17 the king loved Esther more than all the women, and she won grace and favor in his sight more than all the virgins, so that he set the royal crown on her head and made her queen instead of Vashti.
References
Dowden, Landon. Christ-Centered Exposition: Exalting Jesus in Esther. Holman: Brentwood, 2019.
Snow, Donna. Chosen: A Study of Esther. Concordia: St. Louis, 2021.
Introduction
Today we are introducing a new series.
Esther Story Summary
- The Jewish people in exile:
- Some returned but some stayed in Persia
- Minorities in a strange land:
- Their culture pointed to the future Christ:
- The Christ Spirit provokes the Antichrist Spirit:
- The Antichrist is not just a future evil world leader:
- An antichrist is any person who opposes the spirit of Christ.
- John speaks of the concept of multiple antichrists:
- 1 John 2:18 (ESV):18 Children, it is the last hour, and as you have heard that antichrist is coming, so now many antichrists have come. Therefore, we know that it is the last hour.
- Esther’s people faced an antichrist backlash:
- The enemy attempted to annihilate Esther’s people:
- God raised up Esther to be a deliverer:
This Year’s Theme
- Esther’s story ties directly to this year’s theme, which is “Under Construction”
- 1 Peter 2:5 (ESV):5 you yourselves like living stones are being built up as a spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus
- You are a minister
The Hidden Presence of God in Esther
Esther’s Secular Context
- Esther 1:1–2 (ESV): 1 Now in the days of Ahasuerus, the Ahasuerus who reigned from India to Ethiopia over 127 provinces, 2 in those days when King Ahasuerus sat on his royal throne in Susa, the citadel,
- Esther 1: 3-4 (ESV):3 in the third year of his reign he gave a feast for all his officials and servants. The army of Persia and Media and the nobles and governors of the provinces were before him, 4 while he showed the riches of his royal glory and the splendor and pomp of his greatness for many days, 180 days.
- Esther 1:5 (ESV): 5 And when these days were completed, the king gave for all the people present in Susa the citadel, both great and small, a feast lasting for seven days in the court of the garden of the king’s palace.
- Esther 1:9 (ESV):9 Queen Vashti also gave a feast for the women in the palace that belonged to King Ahasuerus.
Reflecting the Spirt of Christ in a Secular Context
- Matthew 20:25–26 (NLT):25 But Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. 26 But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant,
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- Romans 12:10 (ESV):10 . . . . Outdo one another in showing honor.
- Esther has favor.
- Esther 2:8–9 (ESV):8 . . . .Esther also was taken into the king’s palace and put in custody of Hegai, who had charge of the women. 9 And the young woman pleased him and won his favor. . . .
- Esther 2:15 (ESV):15. . . .Now Esther was winning favor in the eyes of all who saw her.
- Esther 2:17 (ESV):17 the king loved Esther more than all the women, and she won grace and favor in his sight more than all the virgins, so that he set the royal crown on her head and made her queen instead of Vashti.
Three Kinds of Favor
- Favor from a covenant with God
- Genesis 12:2–3 (ESV):2 And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing. 3 I will bless those who bless you, and him who dishonors you I will curse, and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.”
- Deuteronomy 30:1–3 (ESV):1“And when all these things come upon you, the blessing and the curse, which I have set before you, and you call them to mind among all the nations where the Lord your God has driven you, 2 and return to the Lord your God, you and your children, and obey his voice in all that I command you today, with all your heart and with all your soul, 3 then the Lord your God will restore your fortunes and have mercy on you, and he will gather you again from all the peoples where the Lord your God has scattered you.
- Hebrews 8:6 (ESV):6 But as it is, Christ has obtained a ministry that is as much more excellent than the old as the covenant he mediates is better, since it is enacted on better promises.
- Ephesians 2:8 (ESV):8 For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,
- Hebrews 4:16 (ESV):16 Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
- Favor from obedience to God’s law
- Proverbs 16:7 (ESV):7 When a man’s ways please the Lord, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.
- 1 Samuel 2:26 (ESV):26 Now the boy Samuel continued to grow both in stature and in favor with the Lord and also with man.
- Luke 2:51–52 (ESV):51 And he went down with them and came to Nazareth and was submissive to them. And his mother treasured up all these things in her heart. 52 And Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature and in favor with God and man.
- Genesis 6:8 (ESV):8 But Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord.
- Genesis 6:9 (ESV):9 These are the generations of Noah. Noah was a righteous man, blameless in his generation. Noah walked with God.
- Genesis 6:22 (ESV):22 Noah did this; he did all that God commanded him.
- Favor from the protection and provision of a kingdom assignment
- Matthew 6:25 (ESV): 25 “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?
- Matthew 6:31-33 (ESV):31 Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’32 For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all.33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
- Romans 8:31 (ESV):31. . .. If God is for us, who can be against us?
The Redemptive Hope of Motherhood
Roadmap to Hope Through Naomi’s Motherhood Journey
RESET | RE-CONNECT | RENEWAL
RESET
Ruth 1: 2-20 Introduction of Naomi’s Loss
We meet a woman who has everything, and all of a sudden, she loses her entire family in a decade.
Sometimes in life, we are faced with challenge after challenge, and it’s hard to feel close to God. But He is always near, and He is always sending glimmers of Hope
Ruth 1:16–17 (NKJV)
“But Ruth said:
‘Entreat me not to leave you, or to turn back from following after you; For wherever you go, I will go; And wherever you lodge, I will lodge; Your people shall be my people, And your God, my God. Where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. The Lord do so to me, and more also, if anything but death parts you and me.’”
Naomi’s season of motherhood did not end; it changed. Her calling to mother did not stop; the way she would mother was changing.
Naomi’s Mothering
- What we learn about Naomi in the text is that she was a wonderful mother-in-law. We know this because both of her daughters-in-law wanted to stay with her, and one refused to leave her.
- Motherhood often extends beyond our biological children. Being a mother often means we mother those closest to our children or in our proximity.
- God grants mothers a grace to keep loving well even when their hearts are breaking.
- Naomi was called to mother Ruth. Even though her son was gone, her assignment in motherhood shifted. Ruth would need Naomi’s guidance and direction in this next season. Ruth thought all was lost, but God had another plan.
“ Faith is depending on God when you’re living in the unknown, and sometimes the Lord lets us hit rock bottom so we can experience that He is the Rock at the bottom. Mom and Dad always told us that your greatest ministry is born from your greatest misery.” – Jonathan Evans, “Divine Disruption.”
Grief in Motherhood
We do not need to hide our honest prayers from God.
Scripture makes room for grief.
Psalm 13:1–3
“How long, O Lord? Will You forget me forever? How long will You hide Your face from me? How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart daily? How long will my enemy be exalted over me? Consider and hear me, O Lord my God; enlighten my eyes.”
God loved David, and David was honest with God.
Grief in motherhood does not only result from the loss of a child. Sometimes there is grief from the loss of a relationship with that child, grief in the child being lost in the world, grief in not being able to mother or not being the mother you thought you would be. God wants you to tell him. He can handle your hurt. He makes room for it.
God cannot heal what you will not reveal.
Acknowledge the Emotion; Praise Your Savior
Lament is not the opposite of faith. Lament is faith that does not lie about how much it hurts.
The hurt is real, and so is the Lord’s faithfulness.
Joy and grief can co-exist.
We must acknowledge our emotions.
It is not a sin to express emotional pain.
Jesus expressed His emotions and wept for Lazarus.
Psalm 13:5–6
“But I have trusted in Your mercy; my heart shall rejoice in Your salvation. I will sing to the Lord, because He has dealt bountifully with me.”
CONTINUOUS RESET
As a mother, and especially a mother who deals with grief, sometimes every day will be a reset.
We will have to remind ourselves that his mercies are new every morning. (Lamentations 3:22-23)
WORSHIP IS A WEAPON to fight anxiety in our lives.
Hebrews 4:16
“Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.”
Motherhood requires bold prayers.
Motherhood requires honesty with God.
RE-CONNECT
Boaz – The Kinsman Redeemer
We need family to support healthy motherhood.
Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
“Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion.”
In the text, we see that Boaz is a godly man.
He goes into the workplace blessing people and looking for ways to help. God wants to use all of us, whether we are mothers or not, to support motherhood. Find a community where you can bless others.
Whatever workplace, church, or community organization you are involved in, look for ways to love others well.
Ruth 2:4–20
The Power of Notice
Boaz notices Ruth and helps her.
Ruth 2:11–12
“The Lord repay your work, and a full reward be given you by the Lord God of Israel, under whose wings you have come for refuge.”
Men can help meet needs in motherhood.
God is intentional and meets needs through people.
Provision often comes through people. God needs us in tune with what He is calling us to do and who He has called us to support. We can only be sensitive to that if we are spending time in the world.
Ruth 2:20
“Blessed be the Lord, who has not forsaken His kindness to the living and the dead.”
Be the reason someone says there must be a God. Your kindness can change the trajectory of a life.
RENEWAL
Ruth 4:14–15
“Blessed be the Lord who has not left you this day without a close relative… May he be to you a restorer of life.”
Be open to God’s plan, not looking like your original plan for motherhood. His plan may be greater, or it may be different, but it will give life.
Trust God’s plan for restoration.
Maybe God has called you to be someone’s “work mom,” foster mother, adoptive mother, bonus mom (stepmother), grandma, spiritual mother, mentor, or aunty. Whatever the Lord has called you to do, do it well and partner with him in prayer.
“From Scripture we have received written proof of what God has done for us, what He’s created us and called us and empowered us into becoming. Then in prayer we cooperate with him to stamp these truths repeatedly into our hearts.” -Priscilla Shirer, “ Fervent.”
New Life
Naomi was able to mother again as a grandmother.
God calls women to motherhood in different ways.
Do not limit how God will call you to be a mother.
Contentment in Christ
“Christ-based contentment will turn you into a strong person. Since no one can take your Christ, no one can take your joy.” – Max Lucado
No matter what happens in motherhood or in life, Jesus, I have you, and in you I have everything.
Christ-Confidence.
Proverbs 31:28
“Her children rise up and call her blessed.”
RESOURCES
“Divine Disruption” – Dr. Tony Evns, Chrystal Evans Hurst, Priscilla Shirer, Anthony Evans, and Jonathan Evans
“The Garden Within’ – Dr. Anita Phillips
“Fervent” – Priscilla Shirer
Ready to Build
Psalms 127:1 NKJV
Unless the LORD builds the house, they labor in vain who build it…
I Corinthians 3:9- 11 NKJV
For we are God’s fellow workers; you are God’s field, you are God’s building. According to the grace of God which was given to me, as a wise master builder, I have laid the foundation, and another builds on it. But let each one take heed how he builds on it. For no other foundation can anyone lay than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.
- Have the right plans
- Be prepared for Change Orders
- Get Permits
- Get Insurance for protection
Some of the Pharisees (guardians of Jewish tradition) had as rigid, self-defined expectations of the Messiah as a political/military deliverer who would overthrow Rome, restore Israel’s kingdom, and affirm their religious status. The place of oral traditions and strict legalism over mercy and a pure heart before God. (Mark 7, Matthew 12)
Some of the Sadducees (priestly elite/ruling council) rejected the promise of a resurrection and afterlife and concerned themselves only with this life, its worldly status quo, and their temple status. (Matthew 22:23-33; John 11:48)
Jesus spoke in parables because of their hardened hearts. (Matt. 13)
There are two people in Scripture who, without hearing Jesus speak or seeing any miracles or signs performed by Jesus, still recognized Him as the promised Messiah.
Luke 2:25-32
And behold, there was a man in Jerusalem whose name was Simeon, and this man was just and devout, waiting for the Consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. And it had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not see death before he had seen the Lord’s Christ. So he came by the Spirit into the temple. And when the parents brought in the Child Jesus, to do for Him according to the custom of the law, he took Him up in his arms and blessed God and said: “Lord, now You are letting Your servant depart in peace, According to Your word; For my eyes have seen Your salvation Which You have prepared before the face of all peoples, light to bring revelation to the Gentiles, And the glory of Your people Israel and for a sign which will be spoken against (yes, a sword will pierce through your own soul also), that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.
Simeon is referred to as “just” or “righteous,” which speaks to his conduct and his right relationship with God.
Devout- “Eulabes”(Strongs Greek 2126) “taking hold of well”, “handling well/carefully.”
It conveys a cautious reverence towards God
Waiting – “Prosdechomai” (Strongs Greek 4327) “waiting actively, expectantly.”
To look forward to, to wait with confidence and patience, a hopeful expectation
Luke 2:36- 38
Now there was one, Anna, a prophetess, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher. She was of a great age, and had lived with a husband seven years from her virginity; and this woman was a widow of about eighty-four years, who did not depart from the temple, but served God with fasting’s and prayers night and day. And coming in that instant, she gave thanks to the Lord, and spoke of Him to all those who looked for redemption in Jerusalem.
Luke is pointing out the uniqueness of Anna, “a prophetess”. It places Anna in the lineage of OT prophetesses like Miriam (Exodus 15:20) and Deborah (Judges 4:4)
“tribe of Asher” – northern “lost” tribes deported by Assyria (2 Kings 17)
Anna chooses God’s plan over her own personal plans.
Anna’s life was not casual devotion-it implies:
- Consistency
- Loyalty
- Priest-like dedication
- Intentional
Anna function in service role, even though she was not a priest.
Anna’s life was a quiet act of resistance against cultural expectations.
She becomes one of the first evangelists for Jesus.
Psalms 51:17 NIV
My sacrifice, O God, is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart you, God, will not despise
Introduction
There are Many Reasons to Fast
[List from Pastor Chris Hodges titled Pray First: The Transformative Power of a Life Built on Prayer]
- To Prepare for Ministry
- To Seek God’s Wisdom
- To Seek God’s Power and Protection
- To Express Grief and to Mourn
- To Repent and Return to God
- To Seek God’s Power for Victory
- To Worship God
- To Seek God’s Favor in Desperate Situations
- To Engage in Spiritual Warfare
- When we follow biblical models and motives, fasting is a powerful conduit for breakthrough.
- Fasting is a unique spiritual tool that empowers our “Yes” to God.
- Fasting is more about “Yes” more than it is about “No.
The Rewards of Fasting
Hebrews 11:6 (ESV): 6 And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.
Luke 11:11–13 (ESV):11 What father among you, if his son asks for a fish, will instead of a fish give him a serpent; 12 or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? 13 If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!”
Hebrews 11:6 (ESV):6 And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.
When we seek God, God rewards us with Himself.
When We Think God is Not Enough
Hidden in Plain Sight
Luke 9:28–29 (ESV):28 Now about eight days after these sayings, he took with him Peter and John and James and went up on the mountain to pray. 29 And as he was praying, the appearance of his face was altered, and his clothing became dazzling white.
Mark 9:3 (ESV):3 and his clothes became radiant, intensely white, as no one on earth could bleach them.
Matthew 17:2 (ESV):2 And he was transfigured before them, and his face shone like the sun, and his clothes became white as light.
God Desires the Big Reveal
Ephesians 1:16–19 (ESV):16 I do not cease to give thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers, 17 that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of him, 18 having the eyes of your hearts enlightened, that you may know what is the hope to which he has called you, what are the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, 19 and what is the immeasurable greatness of his power toward us who believe, according to the working of his great might
Colossians 1:9 (ESV):9 And so, from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding,
Ephesians 3:14–20 (ESV):14 For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, 15 from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, 16 that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, 17 so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, 18 may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, 19 and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. 20 Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us,
A Simple “Yes” Will Do
The Two-Master Dilemma
1 John 2:15–16 (ESV):15 Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world.
Matthew 6:24 (ESV):24 “No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.
Be Careful What You Ask For
Romans 1:21–22 (ESV): 21 For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Claiming to be wise, they became fools,
Romans 1:24 (ESV):24 Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity. . .
Romans 1:26 (ESV): 26 For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. . .
Romans 1:28 (ESV):28 And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done.
1 Samuel 8:7 (ESV):7 And the Lord said to Samuel, “Obey the voice of the people in all that they say to you, for they have not rejected you, but they have rejected me from being king over them.
Acts 28:22–27 (ESV):22 But we desire to hear from you what your views are, for with regard to this sect we know that everywhere it is spoken against.” 23 When they had appointed a day for him, they came to him at his lodging in greater numbers. From morning till evening, he expounded to them, testifying to the kingdom of God and trying to convince them about Jesus, both from the Law of Moses and from the Prophets. 24 And some were convinced by what he said, but others disbelieved. 25 And disagreeing among themselves, they departed after Paul had made one statement: “The Holy Spirit was right in saying to your fathers through Isaiah the prophet: 26 “ ‘Go to this people, and say, “You will indeed hear but never understand, and you will indeed see but never perceive.” 27 For this people’s heart has grown dull, and with their ears they can barely hear, and their eyes they have closed; lest they should see with their eyes and hear with their ears and understand with their heart and turn, and I would heal them.’
Fasting Opens Us Up to Hear and Obey
Acts 13:2–3 (NKJV): 2 As they ministered to the Lord and fasted, the Holy Spirit said, “Now separate to Me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.” 3 Then, having fasted and prayed, and laid hands on them, they sent them
Hebrews 3:7–8 (ESV):7 Therefore, as the Holy Spirit says, “Today, if you hear his voice, 8 do not harden your hearts. . .
Psalm 32:9 (ESV):9 Be not like a horse or a mule, without understanding, which must be curbed with bit and bridle, or it will not stay near you.
Review
- The Scripture identifies every believer as a priest.
- “Priests stand between God and [other] humans to help bring [them] closer to God and to help dispense God’s truth, justice, favor, discipline, and holiness to [humankind].”–Douglass K. Stuart [Douglas K. Stuart, Exodus, vol. 2, The New American Commentary (Nashville: Broadman & Holman Publishers, 2006), 423.]
- Exodus 20:18–19 (ESV): 18 . . . the people were afraid and trembled, and they stood far off 19 and said to Moses, “You speak to us, and we will listen; but do not let God speak to us, lest we die.”
- Exodus 20:21 (ESV): 21 The people stood far off, while Moses drew near to the thick darkness where God was.
- “Consecration means ‘making holy,’ which means ‘making acceptable to be close to God.’ The consecration demanded of the Israelites in this instance involved becoming spiritually ready to get close to God. . .as well as eliminating that which was objectionable to God. . .and avoiding things that could distract from attention on God”–Douglass K. Stuart [Douglas K. Stuart, Exodus, vol. 2, The New American Commentary (Nashville: Broadman & Holman Publishers, 2006), 425–426.]
- Exodus 19:10–11 (ESV): 10 the Lord said to Moses, “Go to the people and consecrate them today and tomorrow, and let them wash their garments 11 and be ready for the third day. For on the third day the Lord will come down on Mount Sinai in the sight of all the people.
- Exodus 19:14–15 (ESV): 14 So Moses went down from the mountain to the people and consecrated the people; and they washed their garments. 15 And he said to the people, “Be ready for the third day; do not go near a woman.”
- [Do these] verse[s]. . .imply that getting dirty is evil or that having sex is evil? Not at all. Rather [they assert] that there are special occasions of prayerful preparation and worshipful activity that call for avoidance of the usual, non-sinful personal indulgences and demand special, focused, self-denying attention to God. . . . coming as clean and well dressed as one would in the case of appearing before anyone he or she wanted to honor. . .as well as a denial of things that focus on the self so that one can focus on God.”—Douglass K. Stuart [Douglas K. Stuart, Exodus, vol. 2, The New American Commentary (Nashville: Broadman & Holman Publishers, 2006), 425–426.]
New Testament Priesthood, Different Protocols
- Hebrews 4:16 (ESV): 16 Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
The Non-Physical Requirements that Affect Our Closeness to God
- Romans 12:2 (ESV): 2 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
- Ephesians 4:23–24 (ESV): 23 and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, 24 and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
- Colossians 3:2 (ESV): 2 Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.
The Challenge of the Hardened Heart
- Matthew 15:19 (ESV): 19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.
- Mark 6:52 (ESV): 52 for they did not understand about the loaves, but their hearts were hardened.
- Mark 3: 5 (ESV): 5 And he looked around at them with anger, grieved at their hardness of heart, and said to the man, “Stretch out your hand.” He stretched it out, and his hand was restored.
- Mark 16:14 (ESV): 14 Afterward he appeared to the eleven themselves as they were reclining at table, and he rebuked them for their unbelief and hardness of heart, because they had not believed those who saw him after he had risen.
Other Important Ways God Talks to Us About Hardened Hearts
- Romans 2:28–29 (ESV): 28 For no one is a Jew who is merely one outwardly, nor is circumcision outward and physical. 29 But a Jew is one inwardly, and circumcision is a matter of the heart, by the Spirit, not by the letter. His praise is not from man but from God.
- Galatians 4:19 (ESV): 19 my little children, for whom I am again in the anguish of childbirth until Christ is formed in you!
- Matthew 24:8 (ESV): 8 All these are but the beginning of the birth pains.
- Exodus 32:9 (ESV): 9 And the Lord said to Moses, “I have seen this people, and behold, it is a stiff-necked people.
- Acts 7:51 (ESV): 51 “You stiff-necked people, uncircumcised in heart and ears, you always resist the Holy Spirit. As your fathers did, so do you.
Images of Resistance
When and Obvious Sin Isn’t the Problem
- “Prayer is the elevating of the mind, the intellect, the soul, our perspectives, our perceptions to the reality of God. And then looking back at our reality, our circumstance with a totally different perspective. . . .It is accessing the reality of God so that we can now face our problems and circumstances and situations empowered by that reality, bringing God’s reality to our reality.”–Dr. A.R. Bernard
- Matthew 15:7–8 (ESV): 7 You hypocrites! Well did Isaiah prophesy of you, when he said: 8 “ ‘This people honors me with their lips, but their heart is far from me;
The Unique Power of Fasting
- Fasting is externally applied, but internally experienced.
- Fasting is a physical practice that cultivates a spiritual transformation.
- Fasting is a unique, spiritually centered natural tool that fosters a supernatural reformation.
- Psalm 35:13 (NKJV): 13But as for me, when they were sick, My clothing was sackcloth; I humbled myself with fasting; And my prayer would return to my own heart.
- Psalm 139:23–24 (ESV): 23 Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! 24 And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!
Introduction
1 Peter 2:5 (ESV):5 you yourselves like living stones are being built up as a spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.
You to the Rescue
Example of prayer as ministry: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWWpfIygCdq/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Let the Training Begin
Ephesians 4:11–12 (ESV):11 And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, 12 to equip the saints for the work of ministry
Hebrews 5:12–14 (ESV): 12 For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you again the basic principles of the oracles of God. You need milk, not solid food, 13 for everyone who lives on milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, since he is a child. 14 But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil.
The Content Consumption Trap
James 1:22 (ESV):22 But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.
Acts 2:42–43 (ESV): 42 And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. 43 And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles.
We’re All Called to the Mountain
Exodus 19:1–6 (ESV): 1 On the third new moon after the people of Israel had gone out of the land of Egypt, on that day they came into the wilderness of Sinai. 2 They set out from Rephidim and came into the wilderness of Sinai, and they encamped in the wilderness. There, Israel encamped before the mountain, 3 while Moses went up to God. The Lord called to him out of the mountain, saying, “Thus you shall say to the house of Jacob, and tell the people of Israel: 4 ‘You yourselves have seen what I did to the Egyptians, and how I bore you on eagles’ wings and brought you to myself. 5 Now therefore, if you will indeed obey my voice and keep my covenant, you shall be my treasured possession among all peoples, for all the earth is mine; 6 and you shall be to me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.’ These are the words that you shall speak to the people of Israel.”
Exodus 19:7–9 (ESV): 7 So Moses came and called the elders of the people and set before them all these words that the Lord had commanded him. 8 All the people answered together and said, “All that the Lord has spoken we will do.” And Moses reported the words of the people to the Lord. 9 And the Lord said to Moses, “Behold, I am coming to you in a thick cloud, that the people may hear when I speak with you, and may also believe you forever.” When Moses told the words of the people to the Lord,
Exodus 19:10–15 (ESV): 10 the Lord said to Moses, “Go to the people and consecrate them today and tomorrow, and let them wash their garments 11 and be ready for the third day. For on the third day the Lord will come down on Mount Sinai in the sight of all the people. 12 And you shall set limits for the people all around, saying, ‘Take care not to go up into the mountain or touch the edge of it. Whoever touches the mountain shall be put to death. 13 No hand shall touch him, but he shall be stoned or shot; whether beast or man, he shall not live.’ When the trumpet sounds a long blast, they shall come up to the mountain.” 14 So Moses went down from the mountain to the people and consecrated the people; and they washed their garments. 15 And he said to the people, “Be ready for the third day; do not go near a woman.”
Exodus 20:18–21 (ESV): 18 Now when all the people saw the thunder and the flashes of lightning and the sound of the trumpet and the mountain smoking, the people were afraid and trembled, and they stood far off 19 and said to Moses, “You speak to us, and we will listen; but do not let God speak to us, lest we die.” 20 Moses said to the people, “Do not fear, for God has come to test you, that the fear of him may be before you, that you may not sin.” 21 The people stood far off, while Moses drew near to the thick darkness where God was.
Psalm 103:7 (ESV): 7 He made known his ways to Moses, his acts to the people of Israel.
Fast Track
Introduction
The Challenge of Familiar Easters
Will This Easter Be Different?
Stay Open
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
James 1:22 (ESV): 22 But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.
The Gospel
The Gospel According to Exodus
Explaining the Symbolism of Exodus
The Priesthood of All Believers
Exodus 3:12 (ESV):12 He said, “But I will be with you, and this shall be the sign for you, that I have sent you: when you have brought the people out of Egypt, you shall serve God on this mountain.”
Exodus 5:3 (ESV):3 Then they said, “The God of the Hebrews has met with us. Please let us go a three-day journey into the wilderness that we may sacrifice to the Lord our God, lest he fall upon us with pestilence or with the sword.”
Exodus 7:16 (ESV):16 And you shall say to him, ‘The Lord, the God of the Hebrews, sent me to you, saying, “Let my people go, that they may serve me in the wilderness.” But so far, you have not obeyed.
Exodus 19:5–6 (ESV):5 Now therefore, if you will indeed obey my voice and keep my covenant, you shall be my treasured possession among all peoples, for all the earth is mine; 6 and you shall be to me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.’ These are the words that you shall speak to the people of Israel.”
1 Peter 2:5 (ESV):5 you yourselves like living stones are being built up as a spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.
1 Peter 2:9 (ESV): 9 But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.
Revelation 1:4–6 (ESV):4 . . .Grace to you and peace. . .5 . . .from Jesus Christ . . . . To him who loves us and has freed us from our sins by his blood, 6 and made us a kingdom, priests to his God and Father, to him be glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.
Revelation 5:9–10 (ESV): 9 And they sang a new song, saying, “Worthy are you to take the scroll and to open its seals, for you were slain, and by your blood you ransomed people for God from every tribe and language and people and nation, 10 and you have made them a kingdom and priests to our God, and they shall reign on the earth.”
Revelation 20:6 (ESV):6 Blessed and holy is the one who shares in the first resurrection! Over such, the second death has no power, but they will be priests of God and of Christ, and they will reign with him for a thousand years.
The Example of Dr. Strange
Jonathan: I’d given up on my body. I thought my mind’s the only thing I have left. I should at least try to elevate that. So, I sat with gurus and sacred women. Strangers carried me to the mountain tops to see holy men. And finally, I found my teacher. And my mind was elevated, and my spirit deepened and somehow. .
Strange: Your body healed.
Jonathan: Yes. And there were deeper secrets to learn there, but I didn’t have the strength to receive them. I chose to settle up for my miracle and came back home.
Strange: When are you going to start telling me what we are?
Wong: While heroes like the Avengers protect the world from physical dangers, we sorcerers safeguard it against more mystical threats
Strange: I’m out. I came here to heal my hands, not to fight in some mystical war
The Supernatural Reality of The Christian Priesthood
Ephesians 6:12–13 (ESV):12 For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. 13 Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm.
Israel Shunned God’s Priest Training
Exodus 19:7–19 (ESV):7 So Moses came and called the elders of the people and set before them all these words that the Lord had commanded him. 8 All the people answered together and said, “All that the Lord has spoken we will do.” And Moses reported the words of the people to the Lord. 9 And the Lord said to Moses, “Behold, I am coming to you in a thick cloud, that the people may hear when I speak with you, and may also believe you forever.” When Moses told the words of the people to the Lord, 10 the Lord said to Moses, “Go to the people and consecrate them today and tomorrow, and let them wash their garments 11 and be ready for the third day. For on the third day the Lord will come down on Mount Sinai in the sight of all the people. 12 And you shall set limits for the people all around, saying, ‘Take care not to go up into the mountain or touch the edge of it. Whoever touches the mountain shall be put to death. 13 No hand shall touch him, but he shall be stoned or shot; whether beast or man, he shall not live.’ When the trumpet sounds a long blast, they shall come up to the mountain.” 14 So Moses went down from the mountain to the people and consecrated the people; and they washed their garments. 15 And he said to the people, “Be ready for the third day; do not go near a woman.” 16 On the morning of the third day, there was thunder and lightning and a thick cloud on the mountain and a very loud trumpet blast, so that all the people in the camp trembled. 17 Then Moses brought the people out of the camp to meet God, and they took their stand at the foot of the mountain. 18 Now Mount Sinai was wrapped in smoke because the Lord had descended on it in fire. The smoke of it went up like the smoke of a kiln, and the whole mountain trembled greatly. 19 And as the sound of the trumpet grew louder and louder, Moses spoke, and God answered him in thunder.
Exodus 20:18–21 (ESV):18 Now when all the people saw the thunder and the flashes of lightning and the sound of the trumpet and the mountain smoking, the people were afraid and trembled, and they stood far off 19 and said to Moses, “You speak to us, and we will listen; but do not let God speak to us, lest we die.” 20 Moses said to the people, “Do not fear, for God has come to test you, that the fear of him may be before you, that you may not sin.” 21 The people stood far off, while Moses drew near to the thick darkness where God was.
The Invitation to Start Your Training
The Palm Sunday Connection
Review
To complement the series title, “Not of This world,” we divided the second half of Ephesians into seven segments, titling each with a superhero or sci-fi fantasy theme:
The first segment we introduced was titled:
- Learning How to Sky Walk:
The second segment we introduced was titled:
- Avengers Assemble
The third segment we introduced was titled:
- Close Encounters
The fourth segment we introduced was titled:
- Honey, where’s My Super Suit?
The fifth segment we introduced was titled:
- We Draw Our Power from The Son
Submission: The Neglected Superpower
Ephesians 5:21-33 (ESV): 21 submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now, as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28 In the same way, husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. 33 However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Ephesians 6:1-9 (ESV): Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), 3 “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” 4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. 5 Bondservants, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ, 6 not by the way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but as bondservants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart, 7 rendering service with a good will as to the Lord and not to man, 8 knowing that whatever good anyone does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether he is a bondservant or is free. 9 Masters, do the same to them, and stop your threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him.
Husbands, Love Your Wives
Ephesians 6:25 (ESV): 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
Colossians 3:19 (ESV):19 Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.
Slave Masters Have a Master
Ephesians 6:9 (ESV): 9 Masters, do the same to them, and stop your threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him.
Submission Is for Everyone
Ephesians 5:21 (ESV): 21 submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.
People in authority are expected to be models of submission.
Submission Is a Pathway to Promotion
Ephesians 6:5-8 (ESV): 5 Bondservants, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ, 6 not by the way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but as bondservants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart, 7 rendering service with a good will as to the Lord and not to man, 8 knowing that whatever good anyone does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether he is a bondservant or is free.
Philippians 2:8–9 (ESV): 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. 9 Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name,
James 4:7 (ESV): 7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
1 Peter 5:6–9 (ESV): 6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, 7 casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. 8 Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. 9 Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world.
What we see is that this pattern of humble submission leads to promotion and the power to wield authority, especially the authority to resist the devil.
In fact, what is clear to me from these passages and what we will read in Ephesians is that submission itself is spiritual warfare.
If you’re familiar with the story of Jesus in the gospels, the onetime Jesus is recorded as being visibly distressed
- And so distressed in fact that he’s asking his disciples to pray for him
- Imagine that, Jesus with a prayer request
- But that’s how bad it was
This is the only moment where we see something happening like this
And what’s going on?
- He’s wrestling with submission
- It’s a battle.
- Submission is spiritual warfare.
This is why, immediately after the section on submission, the next section of Ephesians reads like this:
Ephesians 6:10–20 (ESV): 10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. 11 Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. 12 For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. 13 Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. 14 Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, 15 and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. 16 In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; 17 and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, 18 praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints, 19 and also for me, that words may be given to me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel, 20 for which I am an ambassador in chains, that I may declare it boldly, as I ought to speak.
Star Wars
- Once you win the battle over your will, you can defeat the devil everywhere else.
- There’s an amazing book by a profound Christian teacher, Watchman Nee, called Sit, Walk, Stand.
Closing Out Ephesians
Ephesians 6:21–22 (ESV): 21 So that you also may know how I am and what I am doing, Tychicus, the beloved brother and faithful minister in the Lord, will tell you everything. 22 I have sent him to you for this very purpose, that you may know how we are, and that he may encourage your hearts.
Ephesians 6:21–22 (ESV): 23 Peace be to the brothers, and love with faith, from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. 24 Grace be with all who love our Lord Jesus Christ with love incorruptible.
Review
Earlier this month, we started a series titled “Not of This World.”
The title represents the mindset that every person who calls Jesus Christ Lord and Savior should hold.
Because not only has Christ saved us from the failures of this world, but He has made us naturalized citizens of a heavenly nation that is not subject to this world’s chaos.
- Colossians 1:13 (ESV):13 He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son,
Ephesians as a Road Map
Paul’s letters to churches in the first century are guides that help us understand the realities of our lives as contemporary superheroes.
And part of that reality is that though we have superpowers, we still face challenges.
He explains this in great detail in the letter he writes to the church of Ephesus.
In this series, we’ve been particularly focused on the second half of the letter, which we’ve divided into seven segments, each titled with themes from the superhero and sci-fi fantasy world.
The first segment we introduced was titled:
- Learning How to Sky Walk:
- In which we explained the biblical concept of being seated in heaven while walking on earth.
The second segment we introduced was titled:
- Avengers Assemble
- Borrowing language from the Marvel Cinematic Universe, it was a call away from our screens and a call to join forces with fellow believers to save the world from evil.
The third segment we introduced was titled:
- Close Encounters
- It was inspired by the movie Close Encounters of the Third Kind. And it explained how — as heroes from a heavenly world — we live each day on earth in a close encounter with a world that is unspiritual, ungodly, and materialistic.
- And while the temptations of that world are real, what we learned in this segment is that God’s Word offers a roadmap for navigating them in victory.
The fourth segment we introduced was titled:
- Honey, where’s My Super Suit?
- In this segment, we discussed how our mindset is a kind of clothing. And when we’re wearing the right mind, it becomes a kind of super suit that powers our lives.
Which leads us to the segment we’ll be discussing today. Segment number five. It’s titled:
- We Draw Our Power from The Son
Imitation is the Recommendation
Ephesians 5:1 (ESV): 1 And Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children.
Ephesians 5:2 (ESV): 2 And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
John 14:9 (ESV):9 . . . Whoever has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, ‘Show us the Father’?
1 Corinthians 11:1 (ESV): 1 Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.
- Imitating God means imitating Christ, means imitating people who follow Christ.
- Discipleship is Christ being formed in me while God uses my life to form Christ in someone else.
Identification with the High Calling
Ephesians 5:3 (ESV): 3 But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.
Ephesians 5:4 (ESV): 4 Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving.
Stay Away from Kryptonite
Ephesians 5:5 (ESV): 5 For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.
- One: Our behavior on earth affects how we are rewarded in heaven
Ephesians 5:6 (ESV): 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience.
Ephesians 5:7 (ESV): 7 Therefore do not become partners with them;
Let Your Light Shine
Ephesians 5:8-14 (ESV): 8 for at one time you were darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light 9 (for the fruit of light is found in all that is good and right and true), 10 and try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord. 11 Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them. 12 For it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret. 13 But when anything is exposed by the light, it becomes visible, 14 for anything that becomes visible is light. Therefore, it says, “Awake, O sleeper, and arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.”
Ephesians 5:15-16 (ESV): 15 Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the best use of the time, because the days are evil.
Submission: The Neglected Superpower
Ephesians 5:17 (ESV): 17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.
Ephesians 2:1–2 (ESV): 1 And you were dead in the trespasses and sins 2 in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience—
Ephesians 5:18 (ESV): 18 And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit,
Ephesians 5:19-20 (ESV): 19 addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, 20 giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ,
Ephesians 5:21 (ESV): 21 submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Ephesians 5:22-33 (ESV): 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28 In the same way, husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. 33 However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Ephesians 6:1-9 (ESV): Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), 3 “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” 4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. 5 Bondservants, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ, 6 not by the way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but as bondservants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart, 7 rendering service with a good will as to the Lord and not to man, 8 knowing that whatever good anyone does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether he is a bondservant or is free. 9 Masters, do the same to them, and stop your threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him.
Coerce: persuade(an unwilling person) to do something by using force or threats.
Romans 13:1–2 (ESV): 1Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God. 2 Therefore whoever resists the authorities resists what God has appointed, and those who resist will incur judgment.